巧克力ｆｕｄｇｅ

星期五偷閒做了ｆｕｄｇｅ
這是 eat, shrink, be merry裡的食譜
也就是減少熱量又較健康的享樂食物
用的大部分是黑巧克力有抗氧化功能
還有ｗａｌｎｕｔ裡的油脂聽說對腦筋好
但是我不愛吃巧克力
所以大部分還是請ｆｌｙ今天帶去公司了

這一盤不用烤也不用煮
全攪在一起就好了

happy birthday- fly

it's fly's birthday.
he doesn't like to celebrate his birthday so we didn't do much but taking tati to the jungle gym.
and we had the Blizzard, which was good but not very good for our diet.
anyway,
thanks fly that always being so supportive and dedicating so much of his time for the family.
especially during this tough time now, he stays up at night more often than i do, and is more patient than i am.
thanks for your help again.
the girls are so lucky to have you as a dad.

很舒服的椅子

老蒼蠅一直要買一張“很舒服“的椅子給我
我也不知為什麼
老是想應該是要給他自己的吧
這一次因為堅持餵母奶所以老蒼蠅更堅持要買哪張很舒服的椅子給我
但是
我這麼不愛花大錢買高級傢具的人
怎會捨得
去ｉｋｅａ看一般單人坐沙發椅不怎麼舒服動輒兩三百
搖椅我又不喜歡坐因為會暈船
要是像那種ｌａｚｙｂｏｙ的ｒｅｃｌｉｎｅｒ動輒上千
ｉｋｅａ有一張不錯看也很舒服的也要五百大洋
以現在只能靠EI過生活的我實在買不下手

結果就在ｋｉｊｉｊｉ上找到這張椅子
椅子做起來是很舒服
但是外觀不好 還有異味
所以硬是讓它在外面晒太陽好幾天
用清地毯的清潔劑洗過 在用吸塵器吸過
再晒個幾天的太陽
又去ｉｋｅａ買布料（又買打折品）所以花色真的“很特別“
然後ｆｌｙ就幫這張ｒｅｃｌｉｎｅｒ換裝了
加起來一共花不到五十大洋

恩我很喜歡
而且真的很舒服

謝謝拉～～老蒼蠅～手工還不錯喔

ｂｂ讓我抓狂之ｔａｔｉ好姊姊

再生十個還是一樣
我的結論是:ｂｂ就是不好搞
加上我天生就不是那種溫柔體貼型的媽媽
實在是天天提心掉膽的
好累
簡直是精神折磨

這一兩天ｅｌｉ常常哭
這樣也哭那樣也哭
讓我不得不又懷疑他是ｃｏｌｉｃｋｙ
這讓我覺得很沮喪ㄟ

想說第二個會好一點
結果也沒有
該擔心的還是會擔心
昨天吃晚飯
他再一邊哭到不行
讓我飯也吃不下
也不想抱他 也不要ｆｌｙ去抱他
就讓他哭個夠吧
我累了
坐在沙發上
我也哭了

這時最讓人感到窩心的就是ｔａｔｉ
他看我哭了趕快過來抱我親我
跟我說沒關係 everything will be better.
好一個窩心的孩子

自從ｅｌｉ回到家
ｔａｔｉ是有幾天特別想引我們注意
但是他真的很愛他妹妹
我說要把妹妹送回去給醫生
他馬上說不行
有一次妹妹一直哭 我說把他沖到馬桶裡好了
ｔａｔｉ很緊張的說不行
還說 he is just a baby~ (he/she 不分）

有時我們在忙ｅｌｉ哭了ｔａｔｉ就會趕快跑去握他的手
要是ｅｌｉ還是一直哭ｔａｔｉ就會來催我快去餵ㄋㄟㄋㄟ

每天起床一定要先進ｅｌｉ的房間親親他（也就是叫醒他拉）
出門或回家一定問ｅｌｅｒｉ在哪裡

每次ｆｌｙ要帶ｔａｔｉ出去走走都一定要ｅｌｉ也跟
搞得全家要總動員
感覺上ｔａｔｉ是很顧家的小孩
我希望這不只是階段性的
我喜歡他很仁慈的個性

現在ｔａｔｉ也學著會自己或是看是爸爸或是媽媽有空就問我們可以陪他嗎？
覺得快三歲的他這樣算是很懂事了
ｆｌｙ說有時看他這樣都會感動想哭呢

ｅｌｅｒｉ你可要多學著點阿

Lack of sleep

this t-shirt tells you why.
thanks my good friend ING for this shirt.
eleri is 15 days old today~ yeah~

tas and her carrier

If the weather is nice, tati loves to be on the carrier when goes to dayhome. It is also good for fly to have some exercise when taking tati to dayhome.

Tas is really happy for sure.

Whole Grain Apple Pie

Yes, as soon as i feel a bit better, i got to do something.
The crust is made with whole grain flour with rolled oats. very healthy.
no butter but vegetable oil (hope to skip that too...but impossible)
no sugar added in the filling but honey.
this recipe is from Michael Smith, one of my favorite chief. (because he is as tall as fly.)
it is very healthy and we don't have to scarify the taste either. i love it. will defiantly made it again.
and Tas loves it too.

Here is the link if you wanna try:

Whole grain apple pie

A surprise package from the Sun's- our old time friends

got a surprise package from alex, nelly and kieran
the stickers are so cute, must be decorated by kieran.

lots of nice clothes for Eleri.
(it is really not too bad to be the second one)


this one is fun. can't wait ti stuck it into eleri's mouth
or maybe have tati tries it first.


a lot of fun big sister gifts.
tati will love them.


i can see tati goes wild when she sees these stickers.
she loves animals and stickers.
can't find any thing better than this combination.


and we love this drawing so much.
thank you Kieran.
we will go visit you soon when eleri is a bit older.

tati
and

Elerisay thank you!!!

thank you - 華濤移民

Fastlane is the company that helped my Canadain citizenship application.
it has been almost 10 years, and they still follow up with us.
and a few days ago, we got a card from the company that sent their bless for us became Canadian citizens.
this company really impressed me and fly.
we are so gratful with all their helps, and we knew the frinedship will be there forever.
if any of you are looking for immigration agnet, here is hte link to fastlane.
i strongly recommand.

華濤移民

thank you Teresa, Isabell and Sharon, and others in the company who has been so supportive.

what i eat for the 30 days after giving birth

this is what i drink and eat.

Chinese herb tea (suppose to be good for you after giving birth)
got to drink it for 30 days.....YUK.

Chicken Marshroom Soup.
this one is not too bad, but no salt....yuk too

Since Eleri's weigh lost is a concern to the docs and the public nurses, we have to weight her more often. here is the solution that fly come up with, so we don't have to go back to the clinic often.

2010-tati easter egg hunt

and here is tati's easter egg hunt videos and photos.

a few videos, but just post a few, don't have much time nowadays.
and
sorry, can't get that video upload properly. no time to play with it now.

謝謝ｉｎｆｏｓａｔ

今天公司請花店送來一盆鮮花
好美
還有ｌｏｒｉ今天中午來找我
她做了一個尿布袋給我
實在太強了
我很喜歡
謝謝公司的同事

ｂｙｅ ｂｙｅ my nikon

TATI把我相機弄壞了
應該是要怪我自己
他最近很愛拍照
有模有樣的
我看他喜歡就給她玩了
誰知就在我眼前眼睜睜的看她把相機掉到地上
她很內疚
但是我給她玩之前我應該跟她說要如何小心的
ｐｏ一些ｔａｔｉ拍的照片
不是我再說拉
她也無到三歲
可以持續拍出這樣的照片
讓有學過電影的媽媽感到很驕傲

Eleri Xia-Yung de Vlieg

我家老二終於出生了
3/30 早上 11 點整
在ｃａｌｇａｒｙ的ｒｏｃｋｙ ｖｉｅｗ ｇｅｎｅｒａｌ ｈｏｓｐｉｔａｌ
出生時體重 8磅1盎斯 3680ｇ
身高 51公分頭圍 20公分

但是到今天為止他的體重止剩下3340克了
這次有堅持喂母奶 或許因為這樣目前長得比較慢

說到這次生產
雖然是計畫好的剖腹產
所以該痛的該預想到的都有預料到
我想我還是比較喜歡上次緊急剖腹
至少很多來不痛的就過去了

這次早上六點多就要去醫院
我們帶著ｔａｔｉ想說讓他知道媽媽去哪生小孩
他一去醫院就跟護士說媽媽肚子很大不舒服所以來醫院

當然因為一切都是安排好的
所以都不用等被安排到病房理
做事前準備工作像是抽血 打點滴之類的

說到抽血 明明我的血很好抽 但是護士第一次硬是抽不到
白挨了一針 打ｉｖ時也是明明護士自己說我左手血管細但他還是要試結果又白挨一針
真是的
一個不順
倒是抽血時ｔａｔｉ很好奇護士還讓他幫忙用試管

八點多ｆｌｙ帶ｔａｔｉ去ｄａｙｈｏｍｅ
手術時間是在10點15分
所以有時間睡個覺休息
只是哪會睡得著
接下來就是用輪椅被推到手術室
麻醉科醫生手術醫生跟護士又來問很多問題
然後解釋接下來會發生麼事
所以說不知還好
一知道就整個緊張
最痛的是打無痛分娩
上次打無痛我都沒感覺打完一陣舒服
這次因為沒有陣痛
所以打無痛時一針刺下 先是腰痠 然後雙腳失去知覺 但是要打好幾針
我的脊椎有點右彎 所以麻醉師打了好幾次 這是這次生產前最痛苦的時候
連我這樣可以忍痛的人都要哭了護士都問麻醉師 真的沒問題嘛

但是因為腦筋還清醒還聽到醫生在討論ｃａｌｇａｒｙ哪家飲茶最好吃
我都想吐了

然後就聽到他們說手術開始之類的有的沒的
因為有一塊不遮著 我也看不見
ｆｌｙ想看醫生也建議不要
上次生產ｆｌｙ已經看過
就是血肉模糊來形容吧

不過有ｆｌｙ在所以就很放心
這次ｅｌｅｌｒｉ出生有哭大聲
不向上次ｔａｔｉ只有 恩一聲
因為生ｔａｔｉ本來要自然產 但是胎位不正 他的頭又卡住
所以緊急剖腹 但是因為一切變得很快速 我都來不及反應還就被生出來了

這次的話醫院要做什麼都要告知一下 所以就有背痛到跟嚇到的感覺

現在我們都已經回家
肚子還是很痛
護士也來家裡拜訪過
就是跟間的競賽了

對了
我家老二的名字

Eleri Xia-Yung de Vlieg
中文名字還沒想好